When it comes to being social and breaking the ice, you want to be as effective as possible. To assist you, we’ve collected a list of fantastic this or that questions for adults. Suppose you’re in a new scenario where you don’t know anyone but want to be social and have a suitable time by engaging with others. Use these questions anytime and anywhere when you want to break the ice quickly and connect with people fast!
Questions to Start a Conversation
In a social setting, most people prefer talking to instead of being talked to. To kick off an interesting conversation with someone at a party, get-together, or another event, ask that person one of these questions: Would you rather be able to read minds or fly? What’s more important: love or money? Which talent would you miss more if it were taken away: your ability to write songs or your sense of humor?
What is your favorite vacation destination?
What is your favorite vacation destination? Why? Where did you visit last year? Who did you go with, and what activities did you do? What was your favorite activity at that place? What are some other places that appeal to you? If money were no object, where would you like to go on vacation next month?
What was your childhood nickname?
If your friends used a specific nickname growing up, have them explain why they called you that. Or, if you weren’t born with one, ask friends and family what nicknames they think would fit your personality. You could also try creating a list of silly nicknames based on some of your preferred attributes – where would Shark-Lover fit into everyday life? – and see how many people think it suits you.
Do you prefer going out or staying in?
Do you prefer going out or staying in? When I have a choice, I prefer to stay in. But I love going out with friends and family when they visit, and I rarely pass up an opportunity to try something new. So, while either one works for me, I’m leaning more toward staying home these days. What about you?
Favourite family outing when growing up?
If your parents ever took you on a picnic, then picnics are your answer. But if it was more a case of Camping: Yes, or No? then go camping. However, it can get confusing when it comes to activities such as shopping—if there is no option that is more like an outing than another (that is, going shopping isn’t exactly like eating out), then use what you consider your favorite activity overall.
Favourite way to spend a Sunday afternoon?
Were you going out with friends? Curling up on your couch with an enjoyable book? Go ahead, pick one. Tell us—what’s your favourite way to spend a Sunday afternoon? Then, tell us how long you think it typically takes to get from point A (your house) to point B (the grocery store)? If we asked that same question of one hundred random people on any Sunday afternoon, do you think we’d get 100 different answers?
When you need to be alone, where do you go?
This is one of my all-time favourite questions because everyone has an answer. I want people to open, so I always recommend asking questions like these: What was your childhood nickname? Do you believe in ghosts? What’s your weirdest talent? Do you have any regrets? You’ll get super meaningful answers when asking this or questions like these!
What was your first car like?
You could ask questions like What was your first car like? Did you get it when you were young? Was it a sports car? Were you proud of it at that time? Who did you learn how to drive with? Did they teach well? Which road did your dad take you to practice on? How many lessons did he give? Etc. You get what I mean.
Who do you have lunch with most days at work?
If your manager isn’t a lunch friend, what about a colleague? We all have someone we tend to eat with more than others. A friend from another department might say, ” Hey, mind if I join you? Or it might be an old acquaintance you always text on Monday afternoon asking them if they want to get together. What makes that person so unique? An excellent way to strike up a conversation is by asking them this or that question.
What’s the most significant challenge you overcame?
Using What’s Your Biggest Challenge? is a good ice breaker question. It helps people open and enables you to understand what other people are going through. Asking about the most significant challenge will give you an idea of how your interviewee might handle tricky situations. The challenges overcome are diverse, but there is often one common factor. All enormous challenges boil down to overcoming fears and taking risks.
What’s your unusual talent?
What’s your best talent? What would people say that you’re good at? It’s playing an instrument, dancing, speaking a second language, or knowing how to juggle. Own it and use it as an ice breaker question when getting to know someone new. (For example, I can speak a little Portuguese fluently; do you speak another language besides English? Which one?